I've called off my wedding after a fling with a workmate
DEAR DEIDRE: I’VE just cancelled my wedding to my long-term partner after a steamy affair with another guy.

TL;DR
- The writer, a 24-year-old man, canceled his wedding to his fiancé of four years.
- He developed strong feelings and had a sexual encounter with a new male colleague at his telecoms company.
- His fiancé, who is 22, was reportedly the driving force behind the wedding plans.
- The writer told his fiancé he needed space, without revealing the affair, and feels guilty but cannot proceed with the wedding.
- Deidre advises him to be honest with his fiancé about ending the relationship and to keep his new relationship quiet for now.