I'm enjoying quickies with barman at work & now he wants me to move in with him
DEAR DEIDRE: I’VE been enjoying a little cuddle, or a sneaky quickie, whenever I’m alone with my ex-boyfriend’s flatmate.

TL;DR
- A woman is having casual sexual encounters with her ex-boyfriend's former flatmate, who now works with her.
- She is attracted to him and finds him better in bed than her ex, but is hesitant about him wanting to move in.
- Deidre advises her to take things slow and get to know him better outside of the bedroom.
- A separate issue discusses a mother's desire to uninvite her cousin to her wedding due to past misdeeds, which Deidre advises against.
- Another letter describes a mother finding her daughter's diary, revealing her daughter's struggles with gender identity and low self-esteem.
- Deidre suggests the mother talk to her daughter about her feelings and focus on her positive qualities.